A Feldenkrais Blog

Dear Students:
I have decided to address the compulsive behavior of saying “yes” to everyone, since the holidays are fast approaching.  Dr. Feldenkrais describes this type of behavior as being “compulsively kind”.  It is easy to become blind to the fact that compulsive kindness creates strained relationships and is harmful to one’s health.

“The best intentions when enacted compulsively yield opposite results.” ~Moshe Feldenkrais, The Potent Self

Genuinely saying “yes” to others is a good behavior.  It turns into a problem when a person says “yes”, to avoid the anxiety caused by the mere thought of saying “no”.   If this person actually said “no”, they would find their nervousness would settle more quickly compared to living with their own imagination.

Compulsively kind people ultimately end up spending most of their time doing for others thus collapsing at the end of each day.  They then have no energy for loved ones and become irritable and unreasonable at home. 

“Many people become “good”  not by learning to live in good neighborhood with others, but by being unable to do anything that requires standing up for themselves.  They cannot refuse anything asked from them, simply because they are afraid of other people.  Thus their goodness is compulsive, and they then immediately experience resentment of their own behavior.” ~Moshe Feldenkrais, The Potent Self

The inability to turn down requests leads to unhealthy ways of communicating.  This may look like not answering questions, avoiding people, ending relationships, telling lies, etc.  “No” is a polite answer because it allows an inquisitor to immediately make alternative plans and finishes business with him. 

Learning to answer people with sincere honesty is the best medicine for this type of compulsion.  The first time you may fumble, but as you practice you will become more graceful. Over time your relationships will flourish! 

I have included in the photo above a beautiful saying for you to contemplate.  What does “moving stillness” mean to you?  I suggest searching for it within yourself today and especially during this holiday season.

Happy Thanksgiving!
~Donna

P.S.  To schedule a Functional Integration® session with me for yourself or your child call me at 717.285.0399.

Dear Students:
I have been working with Israel periodically over the last two years. Until now, I had never intensively worked with him because of his surgeries & some sicknesses. Recently, Israel’s labored breathing has been a major concern so I suggested that we do a series of sessions.

I explained that seeing Israel every once in awhile only allowed me to make him feel more comfortable but didn’t allow me to teach him to function better.  After some thought his parents called me and scheduled Functional Integration® lessons for three consecutive weeks for him.  I was excited to see how this learning opportunity would unfold for Israel who has had two hip surgeries and is diagnosed with cerebral palsy & torticollis.  Following is a short description showing his growth during that time.

Week 1: Since Israel would not allow me to touch his feet or legs I concentrated on rolling him from his back to each side with my hands initiating the motion through his rib basket.  I knew that this action would passively roll his legs as I moved him back and forth.  By the end of the week I was able to roll him from side to side easily and I could foresee that it would be possible to eventually roll him onto his belly.   I became very encouraged realizing that rolling from the supine position to prone is a very powerful way to soften the chest which will allow breathing and head turning to become easier.

Week 2:  My foresight came true early and I was able to roll Israel onto his front.  I was pleasantly surprised when he allowed me to touch & move his feet for the first time since I’ve met him.  He became relaxed like most people do when I move their feet. This gives me great hope for his future because since his surgery he
has not be able to bend his hips.  I understand that each tiny movement I do with each foot is duplicated in his hip.

By the end of this week, Israel learned another new motion and lifted his head while he was on his belly. The positive effects of this important developmental movement softened his hands and chest better than I have witnessed for him to date.

Week 3:  Israel learned to move his arm from underneath his chest on his own whenever I rolled him onto his front.  He became very comfortable lying on his belly making him doze off one session.  When I help him turn his ribs & pelvis he can now turn his head from his left to right side while being on his stomach.  His shoulder girdle is becoming more flexible from spending time moving on his front like this so his head lifting is becoming more efficient. He now invites me to touch his legs from his toes all the way to his hip joints. This will bring him new awareness that will change his self image.

What I enjoy most is watching Israel at the end of a session while he senses himself in supine. His facial expressions show signs of curiosity, wonder and surprise each time he discovers he can roll his head more freely. It must feel weightless after dealing with torticollis for so long.

All of these essential movements have given birth to other benefits and you can hear this in his Mother’s words:
“I have noticed so many changes in Israel in the last three weeks, even more controlled breathing.  I think the biggest and most important change is that he is more comfortable in his own body.  He is more relaxed and is smiling more.  His movements are more controlled and he has more of them.  He is also more alert to his surroundings, including the people and animals around him. He is just so much more present.”  ~Danielle Newswanger 

If you would like support Israel and attend the Izzyman Golf Outing on Sunday, Oct. 9, click here.  To donate money towards Israel’s Feldenkrais® sessions you can make a check out to Israel Newswanger and mail it to my office.  Thanks for your support!
~Donna

Dear Students:
The intelligent act of walking is something most people don’t think about until it becomes a problem.  Luckily my next workshop, Walking Is Controlled Falling, will give you the opportunity to explore the intricate details of the act of efficient walking.

It is easy to develop into a habitual, non-thinking walker due to modern society. Walking in the material world doesn’t require a person to think, sense, feel & move in the same way that nature’s world requires.  Modern man’s environment hinders his growth while mother nature’s environment nurtures it.

Imagine a person hiking on rocky terrain looking down and texting on their phone.  I hope this image makes you laugh and realize that you can continue to learn and explore in many other ways!

“The opportunity to improve your posture occurs not when you are standing still, motionless in the center, but when activity is taking place, when you have a biological necessity to regenerate your skill for adjustability, and you find equilibrium in all other positions which take you away from the perfect center.” ~Ruthy Alon, Feldenkrais Trainer

I hope this inspires you to challenge yourself and explore your world through a different perspective!
~Donna

P.S.  To schedule a Functional Integration® session with me for yourself or your child call me at 717.285.0399.

 

Dear Students:
In this video a woman learns through the Feldenkrais Method® to improve standing on her left leg up to 9 seconds at a time!  In what ways do you think this changed her life?

After ankle surgery  when I learned how to stand more clearly on my left leg my whole life changed!  
Walking to the grocery store changed from a chore to a stroll; washing the dishes became a daily task instead of a dreaded chore; and dancing with my heart and soul turned into a reality!
What activities would you be doing if you learned to stand more efficiently on one or both of your legs?

If this is something you would like to learn then the workshop  Walking is Controlled Falling, on September 24, is for you!  To register call me at 717.285.0399 and receive the Early Bird price when you sign up before Sept. 17th!

Reminder:  There will be no Feldenkrais® classes during the first two weeks of August at the Susquehanna Dance Center!
~Donna

P.S.  To schedule a Functional Integration® session with me for yourself or your child call me at 717.285.0399.

 

Dear Students:
Over the years several students have observed that during a vacation their pain goes away and to their dismay it comes back when they return to their normal routine.  If you have noticed this in yourself I congratulate you on having good awareness.

Often, people don’t remember “not feeling pain” because for many it is their first perception of body awareness.  Your brain will send you a pain signal to make you become conscious of your injured body part.  Pain is a warning sign telling you to move differently to protect your spinal cord.

Let’s take a look at my student, John.  On a fishing vacation his nagging shoulder pain vanished.  He even forgot that he had been dealing with it until he started packing to go home.  He described it as a “wake up call” when he boarded the plane the next morning with his pain in full force.

After talking him through these events he came to realize that the night before his departure he started dreading his return to work.  When I asked John how he physically embodied “dread”, he couldn’t answer my question.  This combined with his belief that he had no control over his situation made him feel hopeless.  When I let him know that a great learning opportunity lay before him, his spirits lifted.

For homework, I gave him “awareness building questions” to ask himself during his day.  This taught him how to become aware of the different ways he moved according to his emotional & mental state of mind.  Through his curiosity and better awareness his chronic shoulder pain steadily diminished.

It won’t require any extra time in your day to search for awareness like John did with the questions he asked himself.  All you need to do is stay in the present moment during your exploration.  In the beginning you might only last for a little while but if you keep practicing your concentration will develop beyond your wildest dreams.

To start this awareness exploration, pick an activity that is relatively easy to do such as washing the dishes or mowing the lawn.  Witness yourself in action and don’t do any correcting or judging of yourself.  The awareness is all you need to change.

My favorite question to ask myself is “how do I do that?”   If I am sincerely curious I always discover something new about myself and become tickled with satisfaction.  This is the kind of satisfaction John learned how to attain!  Start right now and learn how to make every day feel like a vacation day!
~Donna
P.S. To schedule a Functional Integration® session with me for yourself or your child call me at 717.285.0399.

 

 

 

 

Dear Students:
Before surgery, standing was very hard for me because I had a chip in the weight bearing bone of my foot.  This made standing in place a dreadful experience because it caused me extreme leg pain.

In general, standing stationary is one of the hardest things for a human body to do and with my pain it made it even more difficult.  Not knowing the true nature of my injury, I was perplexed whenever I did a standing Feldenkrais® lesson.  I had to rest frequently  during that time because my stance quickly made me feel faint.

After my surgery I began a Feldenkrais® journey and searched for lessons that helped me understand how to find skeletal support in standing.  I am happy to say that I no longer dread prolonged standing due to finding my organic frame.

I have included an appropriate photo of me “standing in line” from a recent performance with Netco Dance company.  Without Feldenkrais®, I would not be dancing with them.  This is why I am excited to share with you lessons I chose from my search in my next workshop, Standing with Skeletal Strength.  Register by June 4th to receive the early bird special.

I hope to see you there!
~Donna

P.S.  If you would like to schedule a Functional Integration session with me for yourself or child call me at 717.285.0399.

Hi Students:

The next workshop, Twisting & Turning:  For *Experienced Feldenkrais Students is coming up on Saturday, April 30, 2016.  

We will concentrate on learning how to connect the movements of the head and pelvis to each other one vertebra at a time.  Improving this connection is profoundly life changing for many people.  Listen to what Dr. Feldenkrais has to say about it:

“We found that the head and pelvis are so structured in the nervous system, that if the one doesn’t connect to the other, then your power cannot be used for your intentions. “ 
~Moshe Feldenkrais, (pg. 133 from The Master Moves)

*My definition of an “experienced student” is one who knows how to take care of themselves during a challenging lesson.  When movement becomes difficult for this type of student he knows to stop moving and to try again more gently.  He will explore moving a smaller amount; at a slower pace; imagine doing the movement; or take a rest until he can explore again using less power.  Call me if you are not sure that you can meet these requirements and we can have a conversation about it.

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Netco Modern Dance Company Performance:  Suspended Perspectives
Sunday, April 10 @ 3 p.m. ; Ware Center, Lancaster, PA
I have had the privilege to watch artistic directors & choreographers Jennifer Cowan-Berlet and Cynthia Nehr create the upcoming season’s dance peices from behind the scenes.

Both Jennifer and Cynthia are at the top of their games and have created meaningful dances that sometimes may make you stop and think and other times sit back and enjoy the beauty of dance.  

I will be dancing in the opening and closing pieces of the show.  I have had an enriching learning experience dancing within a professional company for the first time.  Much like what happens during Feldenkrais classes, I spilled all of my insecurities onto the dance floor as I learned to dance with the company and embody the choreography.  I have become illuminated from this exposure and am ready to leave my worries behind and dance on April 10th!  

I hope to see you there!
~Donna

Dear Students:
My next workshop is coming up on April 30th entitled, Twisting & Turning, For Experienced Feldenkrais® Students.  Learn how to twist and turn the way you  always dreamed!  Contact me to register and to find out more!

 “You can, at any time of your life, provided I can convince you that there is nothing permanent and compulsive in your system except your belief that it is so, re-learn anything that you would like.” ~Moshe Feldenkrais

The Quieting the Eyes, Quieting the Mind, workshop had a full turn out and many students reported experiencing wonderful changes. Re-learning through your eyes is very powerful as you will hear through some of the following comments:

“Your workshop really opened my eyes (no pun intended) to how important my eyes are and to focus on them just as much as I focus on the rest of my body.  Thanks!”  ~A.M.

“I feel that my shoulder movements and walking is so much better!” ~G.C.

“My depth perception was wonderful and I am still noticing it.   Today I took my glasses off when I was driving and was pleasantly surprised when I could see distance!” ~S.H.

“It was amazing to me!  I was surprised that at my age I could learn new ways to move my eyes!  I felt that the structure of the workshop taught me how to concentrate more and more deeply throughout and afterwards.” ~W.K.

“The workshop was great and I have been sharing what I’ve learned with my fellow employees who have been experiencing eye issues as well as sharing with them other aspects of Feldenkrais®.”  ~A.M.

“I love how the Feldenkrais system always teaches me some amazing fact about my body. It was really fascinating to see how eyes are so pivotal to many functions that we would never think are related to them!  Donna’s gentle, compassionate approach really helps with getting the best out of the workshop!” ~A.B.

“I slept again like a log last night and felt replenished but tired this morning.  As the day progressed I felt more energized and best of all I can feel the change in walking and everything else.  I am not in pain and my head seems to be staying in balance.” ~D.B.

“My upper back flexibility increased by inches!  Doing walkovers today feels like it did when I was a young gymnast!”~D.L.B.

“A human being is like a computer that is capable of thousands of things. But we put in a card that only lets it do one thing. Until you change the card, that is all the computer will do: that one thing, over and over and over. That is the state in which we function and we believe that no other cards exist, that this card is the one and only card that we can function upon. I say that the difference between human beings and machines is that we make the cards. So, when one card doesn’t work, take it out and put in a new card.” ~Moshe Feldenkrais

Dr. Feldenkrais made it easy for all of us to learn how to “put in a new card” through Awareness Through Movement® classes & workshops, and during Functional Integration® sessions!  I hope to see you exploring with me soon!
~Donna

Dear Students:
I love exploring and teaching Feldenkrais® eye lessons because the changes for most people are so powerful that one could call them miraculous.  That is exactly how I felt after benefitting from them on my path to overcoming leg pain.

I had ankle surgery in 2001, due to an old gymnastics injury that became debilitating. Afterwards, I experienced the same leg pain that I had before the surgery.  Being a Feldenkrais® Practitioner, I wasn’t surprised because I was moving with the same pre-surgery movement pattern and the trauma of the operation accentuated it.  Knowing this I was excited to engage upon the process of learning how to walk, dance and flip again without leg pain.  The most effective way I was able to do this was by gaining awareness about the habitual way I used my eyes and by slowly changing it.

I discovered that my dominant right eye didn’t allow me to stand fully on my left leg.  After learning to use my eyes more symmetrically I was able to stand in a way that didn’t cause me any discomfort.  When I discovered the behavioral & emotional components that coincided with my physical habit, I was able to establish more quickly an efficient way of standing and maintain it.  This was when I became able to do all that I wanted from hiking to ice skating.

Most of the time during this long and enriching process the way I used my eyes was elusive to me.   Gratefully, my curiosity; the belief in myself; and my faith in the wisdom behind the Feldenkrais Method®, kept pushing me forward.  Without these traits, I might have given up.

I think the Awareness Through Movement® lessons that focus on the movements of the eyes are brilliant!  Every day when I stand and walk without pain I thank Moshe Feldenkrais for giving us his knowledge in this attainable way.

David Webber was blind when he experienced his first Awareness Through Movement® lesson.   It was a life altering moment when he realized during that lesson that he could learn how to see again.

Following are his words:  “The Feldenkrais® lesson seemed to disarm my defenses.  The constant and surprising shifts of attention throughout the lesson, and the explicit search to notice differences, kept me interested, alert, and engaged in the process.  I was ripe for change.”  ~David Webber; (The Brain’s Way of Healing by Norman Doidge, M.D., page 214)

David explains so completely why I never tire from learning through this method and why I am so excited to teach my next workshop, Quieting the Eyes, Quieting the Mind on Feb. 27th.  I believe after attending this workshop you may learn to see clearly the miraculous healing powers that lie behind your eyes!

~Donna

Happy New Year Students:
I  believe we create our present and future realities through our thoughts & imagination.  Gratefully the Feldenkrais Method® teaches us how to do this through thinking, sensing, feeling, & moving.

Every cell in your body responds to your self talk and to what you are capable of imagining.  When imagining a future situation, your brain will become focused on doing all that it takes to get you to that situation, whether it is positive or negative.  That is why it is important to think about what you want to happen in your life and not about what you are afraid of happening.

Every day choices can help you to start changing your thinking to one that will create more intelligence and vibrant health.  The following questions are for you to ponder upon to help you make your choices with thought and awareness behind them.  Learning to think in a new way can be developed throughout your day with each decision you make.

This can be the beginning of more intelligence; peace of mind; vibrant health; and a future that you want for yourself! Choosing an intelligent path starts with a right thought that can lead to a positive action.

What way of thinking will make your movement or exercise experience more beneficial to your overall health?  I exercise because I:  a) am afraid of getting old;  b) feel good when I do it; c) want to be thin;  d) am compulsively in a habit  e) want to reach a higher level of consciousness;  f)  want to become healthy

Choose the surface that requires the ankles, knees & hips to move with more intelligence:  a) concrete;  b) treadmill; c) dirt path;  d) mountainous terrain

Which activity will allow your arms to become more intelligent:
a) computer typing;  b) braiding hair; c) crawling; d) drawing; e) climbing a tree

What kind of environment helps your lungs to function at a higher level:  a)  running at a fitness center; b) running in a city; c) running in a suburb development;  d) running in a forest

Which way of eating will give my body more nutritional value?  Eating:  a) at a restaurant; b)  a home cooked meal from my home grown garden; c) a home cooked organic meal; d) a frozen dinner

What activity will provide health to your ears and nervous system:  a) attending a heavy metal concert; b) sitting by a brook;  c) listening to classical music at home; d) watching television while working on the computer

Choose the activity that will help your vision improve:  a)  watching the sun set;  b) watching television;  c)  text messaging; d)  using WiFi;  e) gazing into the distance

What kind of self talk will allow you to accomplish your goals easier:  a) I was never as smart as others;  b) I am intelligent;  c) I am hopeless;  d) I have everything I need to figure this out;  e) I will learn from my mistakes

Is __________ beneficial to my well being if I don’t have the right thinking behind it?  a) yes;  b) no;  c) it depends upon the situation

“No matter how closely we look, it is difficult to find a mental act that can take place without the support of some physical function.”
-Moshe Feldenkrais

I have found throughout the years of exploring the Feldenkrais Method® that my body is an expression of my thoughts.   As I become aware of my thoughts I can then choose to change them to ones I like.

I hope these questions are the beginning of a wonderful imagined future for you & your loved ones!
~Donna